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Reply to "Trapping a Man"

trap a man by getting pregnant? that's really funny. first of all, that simply doesn't work. i don't know of any woman who got pregnant to get a man to marry her. in the end the only one trapped by an unexpected pregnancy outside of marriage is the woman. the man continues to do what he wants while she sits home collecting stretch marks and then sitting with her baby alone.

in fact, if we're talking about a trap, i've heard that men like it when a woman has his baby out of wedlock. that means that he can continue to have sex with her and he knows that she'll always want to make them a family. no matter what he does, she had his baby, and he can keep having sex with her, and running around with other women because it's almost like a brand of ownership, "my baby momma". he knows he can always play the "let's get married and/or be a family card" to manipulate her. i'm not saying that some women don't use the baby to manipulate a man, by say, withholding visitation (if he really cares). but i'm just pointing out that the manipulation in this situation can certainly and usually go both ways.

and don't get started on child support. that fifty dollars per month that he pays doesn't pay for shit. a baby/child costs way more than most men will ever contribute in child support.

so in conclusion, i sign off on frenchy's quote. and i say that the only one who gets trapped is the woman and most importantly the baby. because they too often end up being statistics of a fatherless home.
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