What is going on in this thread?!?! TRAP A MAN?!?! What would possess a woman to "get pregnant" to keep a man? The better question is what the Hell would possess a man to repeatedly splash off inside a woman without protection if he doesn't want kids! She doesn't get pregnant by herself.
My mother always says: "If you're having sex, you want kids." Unless you live in a cave in Tora Bora somewhere, you know what sex leads to and that there's a chance that by doing what you are doing, you could produce a child. So there's no excuses or suprises about it.
Don't want kids? Stop fucking.
Spouse wants kids and you don't? Get a divorce.
If you give in? Tough shit. Better luck next lifetime.
Tis quite simple.
No sympathy from me for people who claim to be all oppressed 'n shit because they produced a child by that strange, mystical method shrouded in secrecy, of..... *drumroll*..... having heterosexual sex.