Ah, who gives two shits? We're all individuals, all 7 billion of us. We each have our families and opinions. When my hair's relaxed, it blows all over the damn place and curl won't stay two seconds. When I go 4 or more months without, a hurricane won't move a strand. Who gives two shits? Am I bald? No!! Is it mine? Yes!! Do I have a lot? Enough!! What does that say? The African blood in me is alive and kickin'. I get it together when I have to, grey hair and all.
No one needs to follow anyone, but one needs COMMON SENSE with 5 side orders. You do dumb shit, you'll pay the price. Carry yourself in a respectful manner, you'll get respect. Bottom line, Do You. Eventually, EVERYONE gets what's coming to them. Sometimes, it's the good, the bad and the ugly, singularly; or sometimes all at once.
So long Young Homegirl, the best of LUCK TO YOU!!!!!!