Coming late but here's my two pennies -
I understand where you're coming from, Nykki. Having been labeled wanton and promiscious by the white majority, black people pulled in the other direction in response. I remember reading articles in Ebony on this subject; my mother's advice on interactions with white males, whose interest would be solely experiencing black hypersexuality; and the old joke about "possible" - wash as far down as possible, wash as far up as possible, then wash possible.
Combine our repressiveness with our unwillingness to deal with our sexuality and you can understand how HIV has spread through the black community.