I don't know any that consider something like giving head anything but normal.
is it a west coast thing? i am in the most heated discussion on this right now. that for a woman to give a man oral pleasure prior to intercourse or at all is some sort of oddity. that the women who do are woman of illrepute...like its a sacred act saved for the most intimate of relationships.
it's been said to me that 'head' is MORE intimate than intercourse.
how can this be???
The wise woman wishes to be no one's enemy, the wise woman refuses to be anyone's victim. -Maya Angelou