As for your decision, you pick the one that your gut and every fiber of your being is telling you to go for. The gut is usually right.
...and Mr. Vox, I'd say the same applies to you: always go with your gut. It's there for a reason. Don't kick yourself regarding your current situation; lessons can be learned from AnyThing.
Remember: take the experience and leave the pain.
As for what makes a person good, I was asked to write about that on our "sister" site The Black Think Tank...and I did. You should check it out.
"Wisdom Is A Woman Woman With A Gut!"