Sunnubian, you’re from Harlem? I grew up in Flushing Queens (the IRT number 7 train to main street Flushing). I grew up in Bland Projects which was the ghetto then now it’s the straight up HOOD which of course means murder is how its done today! Neither of my parents saw 60 years of age, both died in the projects along with a host of others I grew up with. It seems like those who remained in the projects died young, those who escaped to the Southern States or West coast survived!!