"Research theories called "Chosen RTrauma "or "Learned Helplessness "or "Image Theory" Read them carefully"
Read them and get back to me. It will explain what I mean when I say victims, and you will find that my points about victimization is not close to what Lofton, his crew or that other fellow is talking about. Trying to take the discussiont to academic terms, as that is what you said you wanted.
If you'd like, I can provide you with books or references that you can find in your university's library. it will be over the weekend though, because I have to dig up through a few books.