R. Kelly's no more monster than Trumpf or Clinton and a whole heap of other men. Every woman's some woman's daughter. We all get exploited in some form or another growing up. We trust boyfriends who turn out to be absolutely insane. My damn husband gets on my nerves every other day and we've been married 32 years; it would have been 57 years if I could have mustered more than 2 years with husband #1. We all take chances with relationships, no matter what kind and we all have pussies. Someone's always chasing after that sucker as long as we breathe. It depends on US WHAT WE DO WITH IT. Live or die.