I never made a person attack on you MBM. What I said is that I KNOW you to be an intelligent person and I am surprised by you not activating that intellect on this subject matter. You position is emotional, not logical.
The fact that men and women enjoy sex equally has absolutely NOTHING to do with my proposition. I never made any statement in regards to who enjoys sex more. However, there have been studies that show men think about much more than women. In truth, you are losing me bro. The direct question is do women have the power to change male behavior by virtue of the conditions women choose to have sex with a man? Unless you can refute that, we can just move on to the next topic. Men are not going to change their behavior WITHOUT INCENTIVE. Simply lamenting that men SHOULD change on their own is unrealistic, because they are getting to much pleasure as is.
I am pushing men to be more moral but unlike you I realize that men are not going to become more moral via the power of suggestion. I believe that men will behave more moral, in regards to sexuality, as a result of women ceasing to reward immoral behavior with sex.
The ultimate conclusion of my proposition would be that women would be limiting sex to marriage, which would reduce the supply of women for men to be promiscuous with, which would led to more matrimony and more traditional families. Actions produce reaction. No action produces no reaction. The action of women produces reaction in men and the action in men produces reaction in women. Hence, the behavior of men and women are not going to change unless the opposite sex triggers it. Men want sex, more than most other things from a woman. Women want sex, but long term intimacy, security and provisions as well. Females being promiscuous play right into male biological desires, but at the expense of promoting long term intimacy, security and provisions because there are far too many women to get with to rationalize tying yourself down to one. Thus, that state of men and women simply sharing sex leaves the women unsatisfied and the male satisfied, because most women desire much more than sex from a man.
You again are faking my argument instead of making yours. I never said that men have no control and practice not control. In fact, I stated in response to your child defecation analogy that all men are practicing restraint given that they are not having sex with every women they meet who is attractive to them. Of course, opportunity influences and tests a man's will power.