Well, as a system analyst, when something is not working, that was working; the first thing we ask is "what changed". In dealing with what going on now, the "what changed" is certainly not the behavior of men. What has changed is the availability of women who do not withhold sex until marriage. This increases the supply and variety available for male whores who want to get with as many women as possible. The more female fornicators, the less attractive marriage becomes due to the "opportunity cost" associated with getting married. Why get married when a man can have everything, and more, while not being married that they can get while married. A man can have sex, children and a variety of women while single, which is better than marriage for many men. This plays right into male's biological nature and role as the sperm bank for humanity. Thus, what I am saying is that male behavior is controlled via what behavior of men women reward. Male behavior will not change by attempting to appeal to their minds, you have to present a case to our groin area and only women can present that case by virtue of what behaviors they will reward with sex.