It's not a mutually exclusive issue. However, men simply don't face the same risk and it is therefore much harder to change the behavior of men when there is little risk involved, relative to such a pleasurable reward. The benefit/cost analysis is in the man's favor, but not in the women's favor. Besides, the greatest sphere of influence of the women is women, not men. Therefore if they have an issue with the double standard, they should exercise a solution from their greatest sphere of influence...which is to start treating promiscuous men with the disrespect men treat promiscuous women. In a hedonistic culture and society, the pull for equality is to emulate the level of acceptance for female promiscuity as opposed to reducing the level of acceptance of male promiscuity. It's like many women are made because they want the ability to be whores and respected and desired as wives and mothers at the same time, just as they respect and desire the skills born from male whores. That's backwards if the goal is a more righteous society.