quote:Originally posted by art_gurl:quote:Originally posted by Huey:
Unless the woman is a relative, underage or has a terminal STD, NEVER ever turn it down.
yup, male philosophyquote:if she's a virgin or celibate, she's called a "virtuous woman" or a woman with good morals. HOWEVER, for men it's different: A man with multiple sex partners is a "stud", but if a man is a virgin or celibate...is he called a "virtuous man?" No way! Unless that celibate/virginal man is super-religious, he's called an idiot by both sexes. So much for that moral fiber.
yep, you are spot on there. Don't ya just hate double standards?quote:The #1 movie in America this week is "The 40-Year-Old Virgin," about a guy who's well...the title's self-explanatory.
is anyone really going to see this?
I think that these are still gross generalizations. I never had the experience of being labeled an idiot by anyone for being a virgin well into my twenties. The only really bizarre incident was when I was working on my masters and got a rash. I went to the clinic and the attending physician asked me about my sexual activity. I told him I was not sexually active. He said, "well, I meant over the last several months." I responded, "well, I meant never." It took him a while to recover. . Now, it is true that I do come from a conservative Christian background, as well as not being particularly susceptible to a lot of peer pressure. Yet even now that I have outgrown those roots, I still don't understand the all but "relative, underage, has a terminal STD, or 'so ugly that she makes your eyes burn'" mentality.