quote:Originally posted by sunnubian:
So, Vox, in keeping with your analogy, if a woman walks up to 10 men and say: "I need my rent/house note paid; I need to go shopping; I need my car note paid; I need you to work everyday (maybe even two or three jobs) to support me and maybe even some children while I sit at home; etc., then if she can get at least 5 out of the 10 men to do what she wants, then, is she a 'playa' - does she have that "certain something" and is she 'skilled' at convincing men to do what she wants?
ROFL! I would have to say you're right. The same exact implications would have to apply. She must have something going for her if she managed to succeed at that! I'm partially being funny, but just like the male "stud," it's absolutely reasonable that she would be seen as a "playa," etc. Of course, we question the morality anyway, which I think may play into your point; I think sucking money like that from somebody, even if they're willing, is on a different moral tier than having sex with them. Others may disagree, though.
But of course, if she's a TRUE playa, she'll write a how-to book, and make even MORE money!