quote:Originally posted by art_gurl:
Hello? Oh... I SEE....
So you're saying that if a man displays all his skill and charm and darn hard work to pick up the woman, then his skill and effort is more highly valued? As opposed to a woman who - supposedly - just asks for it and gets it. Damn!
Is this some sort of double pay-back envy type thang? Reward the man for all that "effort and hard work" to get someone into bed? Whereas the lazy 'ho' just gets it 'easy'. Without the "supposed" skill of a salesperson/man?
Excuse me, but are you insane? Apples-to-apples? Or should we say morals-to-morals?
I doubt I'm insane, but if you stop and think about it, you'll see that I'm exactly right. I think you're ruffled understandably at the thought of there being an actual basis for the difference in the way these men are seen vs. the women. But I don't think you really believe I'm incorrect.
quote:quote:People who would give him props do so because they figure he's got that "certain something" that convinces women to sleep with him.
whereas??????????????? the woman doesn't get props because???
What you are really saying that it doesn't take VERY MUCH to get a guy into bed because.....?
Welllllll.... if you look at it objectively, are you going to tell me I'm wrong?
Say the AVERAGE man walked up to 10 women and said, "I don't know you, but I'm horny. You'll do, so how about it?" It's a safe bet he'll get 10 solid rejections.
If the AVERAGE woman said the exact same thing to 10 men, she's not getting 10 rejections. She's just not. And since you know she's not, you also know that my last post has to be on the money. I don't make the rules; I just point them out.
Now, imagine the man who would get 5 YESes out of 10. You know you're thinking, "Wow, he sure is a disgusting freak, but I wonder what it is about him that half of the women he asked that ridiculous question to actually said yes."
The woman who gets 5 yeses (yesses? yes's??) is not going to get that same reaction, because the dynamic is different. Among those 10 men are those who would figure this as the gift horse not to look in the mouth. Or maybe they'd look it in the mouth, but they still would get with the woman...