I am open to a discussion, and I do not intend to offer my opinions as Universal truths. some things are pretty typical of marraige. Conflict is typical of any relationship, marraige especially.
Trust is based on something. This is a truth. You must have a reason to trust someone. Most people would readily agree that trust is something you build. Anytime you build a thing you build it upon something which upholds it. If love is the foundation of trust, then the trust will stand so long as the love stands. If something shakes your love, it will disturb your trust. When you trust a person because of who they have crafted themselves to be independent of their love, then even if they are not with you, you will trust that they will be the same trustworthy person they have always been.
Ddouble, I say this to you, and to everyone one this board, I am not unreasonable. I will respect a dialogue so long as I feel like I am being respected. I understand that you all are a family, and that I am a stranger...Fine. I would hope that this forum is receptive to new members who have their own way of thinking which may or may not agree with the consensus here. I am sure that while I am here I will learn much...Perhaps if everyone on this board is open to the same we all can benefit.