quote:Originally posted by Kai:
Peace....quote:It sounds like you're saying men should make their marriage decisions based on what other people think. I disagree. If I love a woman who is committed to a monogamous relationship with me, disease free & honest enough to inform of her past, why should I care what past lovers and other people outside of our relationship think? If I've decided that I'm OK with it, that's all that matters.
I must be leading a blessed (or sheltered) life because I can't relate to your everyday scenario.
I think this is noble of you. However, what if this woman only ceased to live like this because she loves you? What will happen to the relationship once the two of you face a serious conflict? Would you trust her to take time away from you? Just asking....But..wouldn't you start wondering about what she might be doing?
If the trust, communication & fidelity in our relationship is that shallow, then neither of us were really ready for the covenant of marriage in the first place.