quote:Are you really asking a question or are you making a statement? You've already discounted any potential dissenting opinions as "lying and denying" so what's the point of presenting this as a question?
Actually I was doing both. I made a statement, and I asked a question.
I never said that every man likes a promiscuous woman.
There is always the rule, and the exception to the rule. I would say that men who date specifically for the purpose of finding a wife are the exception.
My request for an admission was directed at men who date women hoping for a sexual encounter. Men who will only date women that they would marry have no standing as it relates to this issue.
quote:Have you polled enough men to know that:
Yes I have
quote:Additionally, where is your data to validate these conclusions:
quote:Will a man knowingly marry a "Freak"? Hell Naw...Why??Well the truth is that a man cannot stomach the thought of his woman in the bed of scores of other men. Even while he would date this kind of woman, he does not like the idea that this woman will carry, and raise his seed. I don't care how beautful a woman is..if a man learns that she is a former Freak...He will not want her as a wife.
My data was compiled from interviews onducted with men that I have encountered for several years. Did I conduct a formal study? No...
quote:If it's pragmatic, everyone should acknowledge that sex is used for pleasure & procreation. Be honest & responsible in your sexual decisions and drop the value judgements. If your view is functional, any sex outside of procreation is unnecessary. This makes man & woman "freaks". How is "spilling seed" in the context of marriage any different than pre-marital sex?
Very well. Ddouble are you saying that you would be willing to marry a woman who has enjoyed hundreds of sexual partners before she fell in love with you? Let us go as far as saying that you were certain that she had no STD...Would her sexual past be irrelevant? What if you knew quite a few of the men she was intimate with? What if she was involved in an orgy with the entire football team at your college?
quote:You present this topic with the notion that a sexually liberated woman is always loose & immoral. You also appear to suggest that a high female libido is wrong in some way.
I have made no such suggestion. i have made no judgment relating to morality on this thread.
quote:I think that when a person is ready for marriage, they are no longer interested in people who are not of like mind.
There are many woman who would like to be married, but while they are still single they enjoy a promiscuous lifestyle.
quote:If a women is seriously preparing for marriage with a man, why would she be out dating others?
because she enjoys the cmpany of the opposite sex, and she is lonely.
quote:You're setting up an enigmatic scenario.
This scenario is the everyday life of many black men in America.