There are men including myself who would marry a women who you have characterized as a "freak". Number one you can change a person, if they are willing to take a new perspective on life. Number two, even if you could not successfully change a person, there are understandings that can be reached.
There are married couples, who seperately *become the "freaks" you characterize. Furthermore, some of these very same individuals stay married for one reason or another, namely their children, aside from all else they share, including sex.