Wow! I have a question. Why do men use the measuring stick to convince themselves that it isn't the sex that's causing their wives to cheat? Why is that? Cuz that's the first thing dude said. Her cheating wasn't because he had a small jones. What? GTFOH!!!! This is testimony that some men don't get it. And I couldn't tell the age of these men but surely it appears they didn't take the current divorce rate seriously. Plus it's new kind of dynamics in marriages these days..almost guaranteeing divorce down the line.
Many men are sensitive to that which is why enlargement industry is a multi-billion dollar business of pills, pharmacy, exercises and devices. Some men are not happy with 8"s, looking for 10".
I'm just gonna say little on this and then leave it alone. Some men don't get that is NOT about the sex that inspires most women to cheat. It may be about the sex for men...but! Not to a lotta women. And I guess what saves the story is that both women were not mothers.....so there is an untouched psychological component that caused them to cheat. It could be for excitement,,,and may be "sex" was the payment to the guys for that exchange. Or it could be the need to feel still wanted and adored by men other than the husbands. I too found the post interesting and hopefully this guy will find a love that he can truly communicate with to avoid another heartbreak. Cuz communication is the key. It really is. But!
I think when people of both sexes are able to get passed their inhibitions. sex becomes more like a pleasurable sport and allows them to play all the different styles, it becomes a sport of obsession.
What constitutes integrity of a union can be defined that includes the sport of sex with different players but for many its out of the question. Open unions work for some couples and I don't look down my nose at those who have them. My aunt and uncle that passed away decades ago had such an union and they attended church every Sunday were a happy and cheerful couple but I have to say back during the 60's and 70's it was very taboo. Them 2 was my favorite uncle and aunt because they were so full of life and joy, they were each other's best friend and supported each other's carnal desires. My family did not judge either one of them and both was respectfully loved. Interesting enough, their union did not deliver any children.