The last post was legit and the wink was meant to be light-hearted because I can disagree with you without being disagreeable.
I don't agree with some of your opinions. That does not equal dislike of you or dislike of women. It doesn't make me contrarian either. We just don't share a similiar worldview and that's OK. Not sure why you try to go "there" with me, especially when I'm engaging in earnest dialog. No worries.