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Reply to "Kelis Files for Divorce From Nas. . even though she's 7 mos pregnant"

There is a lack of empathy gene in men that hate women.. which doesn't allow them to understand "life accustomed to"..

If the McNair situation was indeed a suicide.. then we can see the very real effects of how placing someone in a lifestyle and then dropping them can affect someone.. clearly murder is psychopathic and not held here as an ideal.. it is just cited to explain the reality of how a severe change in lifestyle can be cruel if you can do something to avoid it.. It is why scientists warn us of depression when we move, divorce or someone dies.. lifestyle changes where you go from 80 thousand a month to less than 20 thousand a month is the equivalent among the rich to going from 80 thou a year to 20 thou a year..

Now when someone has agreed to support you and work together and you are living this way and then that person abuses you and then abandons you and essentially threatens your way of life, health and future... then that person has forfeited the contract...

this has to do with what parties agreed and the consequences of abandoning that contract.. and the effects it has on the lives of the wife and child...

Not whether the wife has earned the money... but whether the husband has agreed to keep the wife in a certain lifestyle.. the court awarded the money based off of that..

Historically men have used their money to control women within a relationship.. and when he gets tired of her he dumps her.. well this can be done outside of marriage (see crazy ex syndrome from McNair) but when done in marriage the man can not get away with it...

Add to this a child and you have egregious behavior on his part..

Even if 30 thousand goes to child support.. his wife will be in charge of that money... she will have to place a roof over their head comparable to what it would be if the child's dad was in their lives.. and maintain the child's life in that way... she will still be in charge of how the money is spent..

When you look at a woman as a MAN with a uterus you completely miss the point... of the dynamics of female/male relationships , their history and the consequences of European styled male domination and its effects on women...

but that's too deep for most right now.. just stick with he broke a contract ..... try to wrap your head around that...

I think it is terrible to care for a woman for years... off your salary.. commit to her and promise fidelity.. then abuse, cheat on and abandon her then throw her a few bucks for the child and tell her to get a job.. :-/


RE: Their lifestyle.. it's beyond silly Nas in particular needs money management and discipline training... since he decided it would be his money that the family would rely on...

also Nas got caught on tape cheating.. so that was the end of that...
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