There's no hate of any gender, just commentary on family law. It's an old school line of thought to punish the defendant in a divorce case. Children deserve all the support their parents can afford. Adults with careers that neither has set aside should not be privy to the spoils of their partner (alimony) that they had no part in creating. Split the real marital assets and keep it moving. Nas was a recording star, before anyone had ever heard of Kelis. She didn't contribute to his career success (even with the handful of records they recorded together) The spending by mother and father is silly and frivolous. I'd have no problem with 30 going to the child and 9 (temporarily) going to Kelis.