quote:Originally posted by qty226:quote:Originally posted by xxGAMBITxx:
LOL this is exactly what happened to me but in reverse..but she wanted to hide it..I found out in under 24 hours...lol...counseling does'nt work because it does'nt resolve the root problem..the other person slept with someone else...that can never be truly repaired...
Remember, it might forgiven but it will never be forgotten.
Yeah but she didnt tell you, someone snitched LOL
In any case, what if you never found this out, and she 'cleared her table', and moved on with life. You would've probably still have been married, raising your daughter, moving forward in the relationship.
See for me, i already know.......if he tells me, thats it. Im gone......there would be nothing to discuss, except who gets to keep what.
Why put your partner through that...?
You cant hide infidelity. It might take 50 years...but it will be exposed..remember..someone else always knows..and human beings love drama; they are salivating to tell. I'm like you..cheat on me and prepare to to walk a differnt path than me because its over and I would fully expect her to be the same way.
Like I stated earlier..cheaters have thought the process out...they acted upon..and if they bring out justifications for it...you don't need to be with individual..they're spineless. Save some face, suffer whatever consequences arise and tell and get it over with and hopefully..(hopefully)..that person will learn and evolve..slim chance of it happening but it's possible.