I say tell the truth and shame the devil. If you don't let your partner know the business, it will eventually come out. Like they say anything done in the dark will come out in the light.
Furthermore, people that cheat are just selfish individuals that are trying to have their cake and eat it too.
There is no excuse for cheating and if folks like that feel like they need to sleep around with someone else, they don't need to be married or in a relationship...PERIOD.
STD's & AIDS aren't something to be played with. Condoms don't protect you from everything out there. It's just too scary to even think about.
If folks feel the need to cheat, ask your partner or spouse to play dress up. Roll playing sounds pretty good in the AIDS era. Slap a wig on and talk with an accent, yeah that outta help. LOL
Then add to the fact that the person that you've cheated with maybe a crazo. If they come calling your house at 3 am talking about a booty call, then what? What if they come to your crib and hang out in the bushes? What if they get upset b/c you don't want to see them again and stalk your significant other?? How do you explain that? So, cheater may as well fess up and take the responsiblity for slipping.
Cheaters never prosper.
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