In regards to Black men in America, I love and support Black men 100% and I always have. I am a bi-racial woman (mother is black father is white) and I have always been attracted to Black men only, now in the past year I did go out on dates with White men and they are okay but, I just prefer the Black man no other race of men can compare. No, I don't want a black thug but, I wouldn't want a white thug either. Black folks love to keep stereo type stuff going. Sisters have alway been very critical of things I as a lightskin, slim, long hair (did I mention "Good hair") have experienced the negotive comments all my life and I have to be the most down to earth person anyone has ever met. My thing is ladies just look at it this way when you see a brother with a White woman; just think he was looking for you but he couldn't find ya so he settled. Brothers stop lumping all of the sisters together we aren't all loud, controlling, bossy and have attitudes. The only time I have a problem with a Black man dating a White woman is when I know that he only dates White women because he thinks they are better. We as Black woman truly need to start dating out of our race more and stop focusing on what the Black man is doing, they will always come back home ladies we are Queens. There are tons of White men out there who would love to date Black women but, we are so busy starring Brothers with White women down we miss them. I moved from NY a year ago where there were tons of wonderful Black men to date to Phoenix, Arizona where there are 5 Black men and 4 are gay and met and married my handsome, a great man,sexy intelligent, well rounded, caring, great cook did I say HOT husband and yes he is Black. We married after only 6 months and we are the best thing to ever happen to eachother. Another words all is not lost if you want a good Black man they are out there but check yourself first be honest with you and love you. The same with Brothers know what the hell you want and go for it, if you want to date White woman go the hell on but don't turn your back on all sisters just because you dated a few bad apples.