quote:Instead we LOVES us some white woman because of our vileness and low self-esteem. Black women deserve much better than us. They deserve the cream of the crop...."
you posted it so I have to comment....not every black man dates a white woman due to the above.
My guy has dated black women, hispanic women and white women.
When he was in college he found a few issues where sistas did not want to date him coz he was black not brown, and he was a studious type. Now, he has a degree and a career, is older, works out, and has lots of life experience and he can date whoever he wants. He does get approached by women from time to time. The first question they ask is what do you do? When he's in a good mood, he just laughs and walks away. Coz he is NOT impressed. Women who ask that as the first question are in effect just asking, "hi, tell me what's in your bank account and what car do you drive, before I even bother talking to you". And that sucks. I don't see that as an AA.org sistas' style, but it does seem to happen an awful lot over there.