I too await that list. Though I'm married, I've always wondered what it was the sisters were looking for. They tend to get rather vague. I remember those long walks to a table of sisters"”while in the "club""”and introducing myself. First question: "What do you do?" I was always dismissed. After a while I stopped, but I still wondered. Have you noticed that even the sisters without collage degrees have "high standards?"
Also, to Honest Bro, Thank you for this:
"Yes qty226 you are right. You are a black woman. You are the mother of civilization. And hence always right. And Pure. Your actions are always good and wise. Black women have the SOLE claim to racial victimhood. Queens without Kings ... We are only black men. We are not Kings. We are slime. Janitors who clean up the slime they love so much. We are N-I-G-G-A-Z: Never-Innocent-Gorillas-Getting-Ass-(in)-Zoos. Never up to any good. Lazy. Poor and incapable of earning 6 figures - which is what it takes to adequately support the black woman and provide the things she deserves. We are stupid. Liars. Having deep criminal tendencies. We have no love for or devotion to our children. Instead we LOVES us some white woman because of our vileness and low self-esteem. Black women deserve much better than us. They deserve the cream of the crop...."
And to qty226, especially, this:
"That is bullshit semantics. There IS a hierarchy. The top is the top. PERIOD. Men put women in a hierarchy as well. Don't come encouraging women to "broaden" jack shit. We already do. We make a whole lot of compromises because of the plethora of men who are not about SHIT who are circulating in the dating pool. We make the MOST compromises when it comes to dating, so men need to go kick rocks somewhere before they start doling out "advice." We would not be in this piss-poor situation if it wasn't for the failings of Black men. Ugh."
You see, I didn't know I was a failure...until my sisters told me...(Thank God my wife didn't think so!)