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Reply to "I finally found the Black women's reply to the "Where is the love?'" from Tampa"

Ok usual I will be the sole voice to agree with your statement that there is a double standard. And as you have said, we are talking about WHAT IS

For example:

Woman has sex with lots of me = whore
Man has sex with lots of women = stud

I saw a report that said that men and women's have different brain so women look at things in the long term were as men look at the short term. I think we often forget we are creatures of nature. I'm not trying to make an excuse for this behavior but just trying to better understand it.

It was said that men don't care about certain aspects of women i.e. their careers, education etc. And I would say that men should take these things into consideration. But looks are a first priority for a lot of men...and sometimes the only priority.

But in one post it, and as I said earlier, this is a natural thing. Do or should we expect men and women to look at things in the same manner? Men are from Mars Women are from Venus.

In my view, it appears that men don't have but need to have better and more mature criteria for choosing a mate also.