I'm not using you as a barb. I'm sorry if you feel that way because that was not my intention. Yes I do realize that different people want different things and won't necessarily be attracted to the same types. But the point I'm trying to make is that YOU, Art Gurl, ARE THE ONLY ONE AMONG THE WOMEN stepping forth to make these finer distinctions. The only one expressing a positive desire for ANY of the examples I gave. And I'm trying to figure out what to make of it. I have a hard time believing it to be insignificant and not worth commenting on. Perhaps you are simply more mature and in touch with yourself?