Rowe, the ONLY person to say "Wait a minute, I like some of these men" was Art Gurl. Don't you sistas in any way find that embarrassing?
I very much suspect that some of you ladies (who shall remain unnamed) are not being honest with yourselves or with us.
Once again, the whole point was to try to ascertain what the standards were and the imputed standards were never completely denied.
But of course, you're completely free to have whatever standards you want....