quote:Originally posted by HonestBrother:quote:Originally posted by qty226:
because i wont pick a janitor.
HOW MUCH TIME DID I JUST SPEND DISCUSSING OPTIONS BESIDES JANITORS?
qty226, you don't know me personally, who I've chosen to date. My personal history might surprise you. I resent being lumped in with "YOU MEN" and being told about who I've rejected and why. Because you don't know.
Damn HB........i was using a janitor, as a point of reference.
Im going to law school.....that doesnt mean, im looking to marry/date a doctor, lawyer etc.............i do know that there are tons of decent black men, in other professions. But let that be my choice.......
To tell a black woman, that she should only EXPECT, this or that, because we cant do any better.....is disheartening.
I didnt say YOU said anything.........
Im not trying to lump you with other men.......im just trying to express myself, and i dont want you to take this personally....