On that subject, didn't I just read a post in A Sista's Spot explaining that black men who desire white women do so because they despise black beauty?
As much as I want to be Afrocentric and agree wholeheartedly with the article, I have to say that at least some of us are with white women because we can't find black beauty.
My brother for example who is only an inch shorter than me and I'm 5'9" got tired of black women telling him he was too short. So he dates Asian women. They don't expect men to be taller than 6 feet.
YES. Date whoever you want. But you Sistas don't seem to realize that we as a group are on the verge of a severe crisis. Ya'll need to stop the belly aching and the nit-picking. It really is excessive. For real.
Yes men too can have unrealistic expectations of women. But you don't CONSTANTLY read and hear about them griping because they can't find big booty or whatever the crap it is.