quote:Originally posted by art_gurl:quote:What about your black artists? Sculptors? Writers? Painters? Scholars? Community Activists? These aren't cream of the crop? And they're deserving men.
HB... for a lot of women (me included) these men are the cream of the crop! Dream man/men, in fact.
Point is, whether they are doctors or artists, a lot of time the booty 'talks' to those men way before (or instead of) any of those similar talents in women.
AG, these are not talents, they're careers or occupations, or callings. That's the giant problem me and the other guys on this thread are having with this perception of a double standard. Women are looking for the different occupations listed throughout this thread. Their not looking for talent. But as I and others have said before, If that's what you want then that's what you get.
quote:Flip the script, and ask yourself are any men actively seeking the same - women writers, artists, painters, etc,
No, men and women are not seeking the same thing! That's why this whole idea of a double standard is silly.
quote:or do they expect booty + beauty + brain + bank balance ALL-in-one?
A lot of men are more into 'T' than 'A' + beauty is entirely subjective + there are many stupid men who can appreciate a stupid woman + I've never in my life met a man who cared in the slightest how much money a woman made.