quote:What about your black artists? Sculptors? Writers? Painters? Scholars? Community Activists? These aren't cream of the crop? And they're deserving men.
HB... for a lot of women (me included) these men are the cream of the crop! Dream man/men, in fact.

Point is, whether they are doctors or artists, a lot of time the booty 'talks' to those men way before (or instead of) any of those similar talents in women. Flip the script, and ask yourself are any men actively seeking the same - women writers, artists, painters, etc, or do they expect booty + beauty + brain + bank balance ALL-in-one?
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