quote:Originally posted by ddouble:
Honest & AG -
The three of us have said the same thing to the ladies.
And the 3 of you are completely missing the point, as has been pointed out to all of you repeatedly by several different people, so I don't know what exactly you're patting yourselves on the back for.
quote:No one is denying fantasy. But the reality is that everyone can't be a high social status, high income, buff, male idol.
Of course not! Otherwise the high social status, high income, buff male idol wouldn't be so valuable!! The reality is that women should be able to voice wanting one of these men without you and the rest of society coming in to talk us out of it... the same way that you can want a high social status, high income, sexy female idol and the world lets you "do you."
If we were all holding out for the cream, none of us would ever get married. At this point, Black women are not even holding out for the possibility of finding someone in the middle. We are reduced down to dating the damn slime just so we're not alone for the rest of our lives. And you all have a damn nerve to come and give advice about "being more realistic." It's like it's not okay for a Black woman to have ANY damn criteria without being shot down for "wanting too much."
White Men, Here I come!!