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Reply to "I finally found the Black women's reply to the "Where is the love?'" from Tampa"

Originally posted by Sweetwuzzy:
I agree with you. Some women seem to put men into two categories. This is only going to lead to women being lonley due to excessively high standards.

I'm not even saying that women should "lower" their standards. Here's a list of people who probably do NOT earn 6 figures or a comparable salary

Albert Einstein
Add almost any college professor to this list -(even many at Ivy League Schools)
Most teachers/administrators in junior colleges
Teachers in elementary and secondary education
Most people in literature or the arts.
Etc. I could go on if a really tried but I have a life

But my point is not that women need to "lower" their vision. They need to broaden/expand their vision.

Denzel/Doctor/Lawyer is tunnel vision.

My guess is it's the continuation of a cultural habit that started because our access to the professions was limited. That's no longer as much the case. So this habit has become a bad habit that I believe is worsened with the influence of media.
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