What on Earth are you talking about? I am not only talking about what happens in this thread and on this board!! (Though, if you want to get technical, that "what makes you think you deserve that kind of man?" has DEFINTELY been trotted out on this board before.)
Please go back and read my first post in this thread. You're picking up and running with all of these side details and repeatedly skipping right over the main point. I don't give a shit what makes a particular woman the "cream of the crop" to a man. I'm only saying that there is such a thing as the "cream of the crop" and that is what I am referring to when I talk about each gender being allowed to pursue "the best" freely without being admonished to settle for something less. If it's not "the girl with the big ass" but something else instead, FINE. Who cares?!?! That's not the POINT. How many different times and ways do I have to say that?!?
Lord! You guys are making me pull my hair out!