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Reply to "I finally found the Black women's reply to the "Where is the love?'" from Tampa"

Originally posted by ddouble:
I still believe the "few good mates" argument is overblown & overhyped. People because of their preferences and flaws (recognized & unrecognized), sabotage many of their relationships. People should have:

Realistic expectations
Honest self-assessment
Objectivity in assessing a relationship
Willingness to forgive (themselves & others)

Too many people have rigid views of themselves, others, and relationships. Who knows, that single mom or blue collar man may surprise you!

thanks thanks