1 - Gambit, I wasn't talking to you. Turn that frown upside down.
2 - HonestB, you're still missing it, baby. Hee hee. It is not that men are going out and dating these "perfect women," it's that it's perfectly okay for them to want that and the same is not true for us. THAT is the double standard. It works like this:
In front of a man stands Halle Berry and a random Plain Jane.
Man: I choose Halle!
Crowd Reaction: Naturally! Who wouldn't?
In front of a woman stands Denzel and a random Plain Joe.
Woman: I choose Denzel!
Crowd Reaction: That's what's wrong with you all. What makes you think you are worthy of dating a Denzel? You all are focused on the wrong things and need to be open to all types of Black men and stop trying to go for the Denzels. Why does a brotha have to have all of this stuff before you will look at him? What happened to growing with a brotha? And if Denzel cheats on you, you deserve it and I'm gonna laugh because that is what you get going after those types of desireable men.