quote:Originally posted by thayfen:quote:Originally posted by qty226:
So no matter what........black men dont want a 200lb sista, that has her own in life................but a sista should want a janitor, custodian or fast food manager?
Writing as a former Janitor--I agree with Sister qty226. Black women should not settle for a "limited blue-collar-type." By no means--besides, there are plenty of women form other cultures who have no prob with an "average man".
--So, when you see these Blue-collar, uneducated, limited Blackmen with those "other women"...don't complain.
Not that I'm in favor of anybody settling but I'll just throw in that I was once a construction worker (gasp ) . I was even a janitor for a little bit. And even then, I read books during my breaks.... Ahem .... choke .... Ahem.....Not that I'm tryin' to say anything .... Ahem ....