Though I agree with some of the points made in this article, I think we have missed one other crucial point. Physical appearance. These days, it seems that appearance matters more than whether this woman is educated or employed. If you put an educated 200-pound woman (with) no children and taking care of her own next to a 125-pound woman with four kids and no job, who do you think he is attracted to?
The fact is most black men these days are looking for the typical "Video Girl." Whether she be black, white or any other race, most men look for the images portrayed on television.
quote:If black women would work together with the black man, whether he is ajanitor, custodian or manager in a fast food establishment, I believe theywill see they have more choices then they realize. Belittling someone's jobor career choices will never attract someone to you or keep them with you.There is a vast difference between encouragement and denouncement. Noteveryone has a self-ameliorated personality, and black women tend not torecognize this difference.
So no matter what........black men dont want a 200lb sista, that has her own in life................but a sista should want a janitor, custodian or fast food manager?
Am i reading this right??
Gimmie a damn break!!
Like i mentioned before.......i live in Tampa, and when i go out, i never look 'at' black men.