Why does it matter if "He's Gay or Straight"?
I'm not concerned about a Man being gay UnLess he's trying to pull a fast one on the dating scene....then I would be more than pissed off.
I remember seeing SomeThing on Black Planet a long time ago, in which one of the reporters was asking to interview any Ladies who had experience dealing with a Man who was on the down low....and I think it is HeartBreaking what some of those Ladies had to go through.
HopeFully, we live in an environment in which some Men feel better about "coming out of the closet"....I'd hope that SomeOne would be honest about that in this day and age.
"Wisdom Is A Woman Reflecting!"