quote:Fortunately, not all Black women are this way and I have met quite a few that have not desired to be 'thugged'...but in the DC area, among the younger black women, those are few and far between. But there is hope
Young people make many mistakes. When I was in high school all the guys really went for the homecoming queen/prom queen types. How many of the most popular girls in your high schools are now sitting at home or in some dead end job with way to many kids by a bunch of different guys and/or on drugs? And what about the most popular guys? They are a lot of times, on drugs, in and out of jail, unstable, and that's if they're still alive.
What's cool when you're young is often not what's cool when you get a little age, experience, and maturity.
RR: Have you considered dating older women since the young women you run into give you such a hard way to go?