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Reply to "FINALLY SOME GOOD ADVICE!!! -How To Get A Man In Four Weeks Or Less - If You Want One"

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Originally posted by Rowe:
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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
I refuse to 'post something nice' when it is forced or phony. It is not my job to 'boost' self-esteem of the 'ladies' here. If I can be only one thing on here, I choose to be real.


I agree. So why can't we "be real" about Black men's situation in this country?


When African-American women talk about how this state of affairs is impacting their lives, why can't you all respectfully acknowledge what you are hearing? Whenever an African-American woman tells people about how the deterioration of our communities is impacting her future, all she get is expressions of disbelief and denial, followed by a list of general dating tips. Well Black women are not apart of the "general" dating population. Our situation is unique. I hate to harp on this, but the truth is, a disproportionate number of men belonging to her racial category are in some pretty messed up situations. I can see if everything in Black communities was going oh so dandy, but they are not. So if we are going to "keep it real," then let's do it and be real about this situation.



* I have no problems with reality {I actually prefer it to the self-boosting misinformation often floating about the Black community}, so long as those women acknowledge that they chose to date those guys all by themselves [cherry picked]. It was her choice to date/pursue Joe Thug and Ray-ray and thus it was her 'fault' when they let her down. If you sleep with dogs, you just might wake up with fleas and puppies!!! She also can't blame 'sane' black men that didn't appeal to her 'Ray-Ray' [insane] dating preference, nor expect {those later defined by her} 'desireable' men to want to have anything to do with her after Ray-ray and dem have 'cum' and gone.

Too often I have heard in a sister's list of desireable qualities in a man:
'be childless and he has to be a good role model for my children'.

"I deal in reality, loosen your mind to the truth, but don't get mad at me" - KRS-One Smile

from your posting :"I hate to harp on this, but the truth is, a disproportionate number of men belonging to her racial category are in some pretty messed up situations. "

The same thing can be said about Black women in 'pretty messed up situations'. With 3.1 million single black moms in America in the 'dating' market, you can see how difficult it would be for a single black man, who is childless, seeking a childless black woman. It's hard for both men and women, but too many black women can not see the problems that Black men face.


Again, the overall comments about the black community are completely different from what I am/was talking about. I said this earlier and I'll say it again. Why not start another thread topic on this. Thanks
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