quote:Originally posted by little minx:
i'd love it if radio raheem, who started this thread would start by saying something nice about the ladies.
I started this thread because I thought that it provided women with some good dating advice. Honest. Soon this thread turned into, like other threads, a battleground for negativity. I backed away from this thread for that reason. As for posting something 'nice' for the ladies, i've found that no matter what I post, be it pictures of beautiful sisters, dating advice, honest perspectives from a single male's point of view, song lyrics/music video links, etc I get nothing but crapped on. It's like yelling at the deaf or doing sign language for the blind. I will continue to post articles, give 'my take' on said articles, post pics/videos, etc...but I refuse to 'post something nice' when it is forced or phony..other than to say that I am glad that SOME of the women here SEEMS to have SOMEWHAT OF AN OPEN mind to hearing the OPINIONS of the single men gathered here. Too many other women are eager to hear the relationship advice of OPRAHtypes who have been married zero days and have 'relationships' that are not desireable [unless Steadman-Oprah type relationship 'deals' are what single women are seeking]. It is not my job to 'boost' self-esteem of the 'ladies' here, that's Essence's job and they do it very well [look at their rag-azine sales everymonth]. If I can be only one thing on here, I choose to be real.