it seems that black men and women are so into being angry with one another that it's no wonder they have a hard time getting together. it makes me sad, really.
the brothers are saying hurtful things, the sisters are saying hurtful things. why don't we take some time to say something positive about each other for once? i'd love it if radio raheem, who started this thread would start by saying something nice about the ladies.
alot of what brothers complain about seeing on this site from women really amounts to women feeling they need to defend themselves for being in a difficult situation. alot of what women complain about on this site is black men being also feeling the need to defend themselves. don't you think so too?