quote:Originally posted by Rowe:
....she continues to pair herself up with low-aspiring men. Her justification for dating these types of men is that she never wants to turn anyone away for not having what she has. The problem is, she continually finds herself emotionally drained and financially exhausted from having to cover most of the expenses incurred in the relationship. Sure, she keeps a man in her life, but she is often times unhappy with the men she encounters.
I'm sick and tired of hearing black women dog out their ex-boyfriends who were worthless, unemployed crack-heads totally ignoring the fact that he was in that same position when she "chose" to be involved with him. Ain't nobody tell her to find her man in the alley......then take him home, feed him, cloth him and buy him a playstation.
These same women will also defend their bum-ass boyfriends if you say something bad about him; then turn around and hate on brothas who have themselves together assuming that they're arrogant and bourgeois.
Many black women will continue to remain clueless and Stuck-On-Stupid if they stay in these states of denial by refusing to accept any personal responsibility for the men they "chose" to let into their lives.