quote:Originally posted by Rowe:
Black men should want these things for themselves, not because they want some pussy. If your only incentive for wanting to get married is sex, then that is kind of sad.
Some black men do want these things for themselves but most don't and we should not expect most to do the right thing out of their own free will.
From a social science standpoint, we are talking about millions of people here, most of which are sheep-like that need to be guided and steered in the desired direction of the authority or government by systematic laws and guidelines.
Sure a man can decide to be a criminal or whore, but why are women dealing with this type? There is no shortage of ghetto queens for the ghetto thug. For every brother getting out of penitentiary, there is a black woman allowing him to shack up with her. Besides a few verbal complaints now and then, most black women will allow a man who isn't working to move into her home, drive her car and eat up all her food even though he is selling dope and just moved out of another womens home.
Pre-1970, black women did not support and move in black men. If a black man did not marry and couldn't show that he could provide for a family, he did not spread his seed.
My intentions were not to blame women alone but to point out the ignorance of both sexes.