Ah...here it is..it's in Coquinegra's thread...
Marcy (the poster who made the comments that Sweetwuzzy refers to) is a real wack job.
http://forums.about.com/ab-racerelation/messages?msg=6720.1
BTW, the forum moderater has been gone for some time now, and ABOUT seems to have left the forum to rot, so there is nobody left with the keys to the forum administration. The forum is totally unmoderated.